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Random ramblings of someone struggling in life
Sunday, January 29, 2012
These Are A Few Of My Favorite Things
First and foremost, my favorite people and inspirations: My sons
Favorite food: My grandfather's meatballs (now my dad has taken that role over)
Favorite desert: A toss up between Butter Tarts and Versea's dessert (old family recipes, as well)
Favorite drink: Vanilla Coke (much to the dismay of my brother and doctor as I am diabetic)
Cook or Bake: I like to bake
Favorite animal: Cats
Favorite activity: Walking
Favorite hobby: Reading
Favorite Genre: a mix of horror and a touch of innocent romance- not the raunchy stuff
Favorite era: the 1950s
Favorite Precious Stone: Emerald
Favorite College: I'm a Bearcat, baby!!
Favorite Musical Group: Paramore
Favorite Song: A Thousand Years by Christina Perry
Favorite Artist: Melissa Faulkner-Vanzant
Favorite Actress: Audrey Hepburn
Favorite Actor: Tom Hanks
What I want in life: To be successful and make my kids proud
What I wish for: Someone to share my life with, a companion. It doesn't have to be a romantic relationship, but I want someone I can trust who will care for me no matter what- good or bad. Friend or significant other, whatever I am blessed with.
My short term goal: To graduate with my Bachelor's, get a good paying job, and get my own place
My long term goal: To get past my short term goals and then go from there. :)
Tuesday, January 3, 2012
Ugh!
In the mean time, it is my children who suffer the greatest, no longer having medical coverage or child support to help offset some of our living expenses. I don't blame my agency caseworker, she is great- always on top of things. I blame the system that allows this to happen. The system that says that as long as some mediocre payment is made- not the amount that has been order, but an obscure amount, such as $30 or even less- they cannot touch him. He has moved without leaving the enforcement agency and the court a forwarding address AND he failed to update ANY employer information, thus the cutoff in support payments and insurance, Yet, still, nothing is done.
Friday, October 7, 2011
Iams Update
In response to the pleadings of the Humane Society of Preble County and the phone calls/emails of those of us concerned about what is going on, the Iams Company has offered to support the shelter TEMPORARILY until they can get through the crisis posed by the corporation. The Humane Society posted today:
“We have just received a call from Iams, and they have offered to ship dog food to our facility to help us through this immediate crisis. We understand this will not be something they can do in the future, but their willingness to help us and to give us time to work this into our budget is simply a wonderful gift. We are especially grateful to Julie from Iams who pulled this together for us. We are also grateful to those of you who have brought dog food to us and who voiced your concern to Iams. Thank you Iams and our community of animal lovers for coming to our aid. Thank you from the board members and staff and from the approximately 110 dogs currently at our facility as they wait for their very own family to come.” http://www.facebook.com/pages/Humane-Society-of-Preble-County/193203296085
While this may seem like a small victory, it is actually just putting a Band-Aid on a fatal wound. As previously posted, the shelter DOES NOT have it in its budget to feed the dogs for the year. Please continue to contact Iams on behalf of the shelter.
Thursday, October 6, 2011
Boycott
Monday, August 22, 2011
Regrets
I know this girl, she is the cousin of my ex-husband. I looked through this girl's and my sister's photos on Facebook today. As I did, this nagging in the lower left side of my chest began, just under my heart. I see pictures of them with friends and having experiences in different parts of the country or world. Oh, how I envy them sometimes. Even my brother, who has always been a measure of perfect. They seem to have it all. Looks, healthy relationships, education, and above all- they have done things RIGHT.
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Summer Update
The summer started off well. The boys went to camp and had a fairly good time. They came home for a night and then were off to their father's for his standard order of visitation summer vacation time. I say it that way because my ex-husband is what I deem to be an "Undesirable." He has severe personal and mental issues. If it weren't for a court order saying I have to turn the kids over to him for visitation, I wouldn't. But, with heaven's grace, that may all change soon. Let me explain.
Friday, June 10, 2011
Summer Begins...
Now that the boys are out of school, I have been doing a lot of running around with them. Yesterday, we went to the garage sales nearby us. Although I only found one thing for myself, they managed to find 6-10 things each for themselves. They spent about $7.00. If you have ever been garage saleing, you know that is a lot for just two little boys.